Haven’t found any good catches in your local dating pool lately? It may be time to use some of those vacation days to get a change of scenery. While we’re not advocating for the โPassport Broโ lifestyle, sometimes a whirlwind romance in an exciting new city is just what you need to spice up singledom. Some trips are taken to find solace and security in being alone, while others are for mingling with the local community.ย We found some of the best solo travel destinations for those ready to dive in with an open mind, meet some interesting new people, and most importantly โ are single and ready to mingle!
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Amsterdam, Netherlands โ Great For First-Time Solo Travellers
While the loudest PR that Amsterdam receives usually revolves around its Red Light District or the prolific โcoffee shopโ culture, it’s also unassumingly one of the most beautiful little gems around โ and a great starting point for those travelling alone for the first time. Particularly for the femmes out there looking for a little sugar (and spice) on their travels but still wanting to feel safe, Amsterdam is definitely one of the better spots to roam solo and feel secure with just some basic common sense. As a city famous for its nightlife, Amsterdam has more than enough clubs and bars strewn around the canals for you to find a place that suits your fancy โ giving you enough liquid courage to strike up some friendly banter. Before you know it, youโll be biking idyllically alongside your new vacation honey!
Koh Samui, Thailand โ โThe White Lotusโ Fantasy (Minus The Murders)
One of the hottest islands in the stunning country of Thailand is none other than Koh Samui โ with its recent surge in popularity, thanks in no small part to its role as the setting for Season 3 of the hit HBO show โThe White Lotus.โ ย Although The Four Seasons Resort Koh Samui is the primary real-life location of the titular resort, you don’t need to shell out a bundle (or be especially adept at dodging gunfire) to live out your own solo โThe White Lotusโ fantasy. Looking for love on the dance floor? Head to the beach bars or disco clubs. In the mood for a lazy, luxurious romance? Chat up fellow sunbathers at an all-inclusive resort. As one of Thailand’s largest islands, Koh Samui is a prime spot to have the tropical fling of your dreams.
Berlin, Germany โ Loud & Proud Romancing
Through the power of fickle dating apps, it’s easier than ever for like-minded (and like-attracted) LGBTQ+ individuals to link up, even halfway across the world. But if you prefer the thrill of meeting potential paramours the old-fashioned way while travelling solo, one of the best destinations for practicing your queer flirting face-to-face is Berlin.ย Consistently considered one of the most queer-friendly places in Europe, the โgaybourhoodโ of this hip German city is the Nollendorfplatz area in the Schรถneberg district โ home to many gay-owned businesses, bars, cultural spots, and more. While the exciting nightlife scene is especially great for queer men, Berlin has something for almost every colour of the rainbowย looking for love or lust.
Seattle, WA, U.S.A. โ Love & Lust, American-Style
While cities like New York City or Los Angeles may first come to mind when you’re in the mood for some love โ American-style โ itโs Washington State’s Seattle that offers a unique solo travel experience. With a relatively impressive level of walkability for a country infamous for needing to rely on cars in many cities, Seattle is particularly known for its culinary scene, cultural attractions, and its globally-recognised coffee cultureย (it’s no coincidence that Seattle is the birthplace of Starbucks!). Whether your type is hipsters or outdoorsy folk, you can pursue your own flavour of an Americana love affair in Seattle.
Buenos Aires, Argentina โ Looking For A Latin Lover?
Looking for some passion when travelling solo in South America? Why not head to the unofficial โParis of South America,โ Buenos Aires! This rousing city in Argentina is thrilling in almost every way โ culturally, historically, architecturally, and more. Explore at your own schedule to chow down on mouthwatering steaks, learn the art of the Argentine Tango, visit eclectic markets, and discover why people say Latin love is in a league of its own. The cafรฉย culture in Buenos Aires is particularly unmissable, with its distinct blend of art, culture, and passion โ making it a prime avenue for meeting (and flirting with) new people.
Montego Bay, Jamaica โ Get Your Groove Back In Paradise
For those whose definition of romance includes soft sand and a cocktail in hand, Montego Bay needs to be your next Caribbean vacation spot. Famous as the setting for where the titular Stella experiences an Earth-shattering romance in โHow Stella Got Her Groove Back,โ this Jamaican gem provides a pristine backdrop for your own groovy love affair. With dreamy beaches, azure waters, luxurious resorts, lots of rum, and more, Montego Bay is definitely the place for snorkelling by day and flirting by night. Lay your towel down beside a potential romantic prospect and sunbathe your way into romance.
Crete, Greece โ Young, Free, & (Not Quite) 17!
Have your own โMamma Mia!โ romance (just err on the side of safety when it comes to potential parenthood) by travelling solo to the magical Greek island of Crete! Channel the free-spirit of a young Donna Sheridan and explore Crete’s natural wonders, lively tavernas, and even join some local village celebrations. While you may not need three exceptionally hunky lads to keep you company, keep an open mind and mingle with the local Greek community โ you might just find a special cutie to explore Crete’s extraordinary Sitia Nature Park with! Rent a boat, blast ABBA, and have the time of your life!
Born in Korea and raised in Hong Kong, Min Ji has combined her degree in anthropology and creative writing with her passion for going on unsolicited tangents as an editor at Friday Club. In between watching an endless amount of movies, she enjoys trying new cocktails and pastas while occasionally snapping a few pictures.
